The Question You Should Never Ask a Psychic and The One You Must.

  When you call me for a reading I take pride in giving you information that is real, useful and worth your hard earned $. Do you want to know how he/she really feels about you? If your job is secure? Are you going to win at Bingo tonight? No problem, astrology, tarot and clairvoyant insight can answer all of these questions with an amazing degree of accuracy. But there is one question that only you can answer:

Is he my soul-mate?

Oh puleeze.

I think some Hollywood adman made up this one. First, if a partner is your soul-mate you will know it. The co-incidences, the synergy, the compelling need to be together will be so strong you wont even have time to consult a psychic. But more than that, I sigh when I hear this question because of the underlying misconception - that is, people think "soul-mate" means there is only one partner suitable for us on this earthly plane and that we must search high and low to find them. Furthermore, the fantasy continues with the idea that when we do find them the fit will be perfect - like we'll never have another bad hair day again for the rest of our lives...

So what do I tell people when they ask me where will I find him and is this one is The One?
First, I need to tell you, you don't have to "search" for a soul-mate. Be yourself and make yourself available. Wear the clothes YOU like, listen to the music YOU ressonate with. This will attract your life partner to you even on a desert island.

Remember, however, even when you do connect with Mr. Right this doesn't mean the road ahead will be smooth. The truth is, our soul-mate is really our soul-mirror. Thus if we are kind, compassionate, loving people then the person we are attracted to will most likely have similar values and the relationship should be a good one. On the other hand, if we haven't quite reached perfection yet then most likely the Mr. Right who mirrors us will have a few flaws too - just to push our buttons and spur us on to greater consciousness. For example, if we ourselves aren't respectful of the promises we make it's likely we'll fall in love with someone similarly inclined to bend the rules - so if you're willing to flirt with a married man, dollars to donuts you'll find your soul-mate appears in this lifetime as a married man along with all the hurt and drama that entails. Thus finding a soul-mate is not a guarantee of happiness, in fact it could mean opening the door to heartache! 

I prefer to skip the soul-mate question and look at the astrological charts while asking, "What is the potential for this friendship?" He might very well be your soul-mate but if he's married or a confirmed bachelor or somehow else unavailable, it's not likely you came together in this lifetime to share a traditional marriage. In that case, an astrological chart can tell you how to make the best use of the connection. I explained this a while back to a woman who had met the man of her dreams in church - along with his wife and three children. We looked at their charts and they had a lot of strong planets in the 7th house, the house of marriage = obviously, they had a great connection for some sort of partnership. But "Partnership Issues" doesn't necessarily mean they are destined to be marriage partners, only that this would be the arena where they could most easily bond. Since the man already had a partner, I advised her to be the best friend to the wife. She agreed to give that strange suggestion a try. I heard from her recently and she reported that once the euphoric feelings for the man had calmed down she discovered she and the wife really did like each other and furthermore, while the sense of joy when ever she saw Him continued, she also saw where the wife - a gourmet cook and devoted mother - was probably a better partner than she could ever be. Thus while it very well may be she and this fellow had spent many previous lifetimes together, fortunately the woman recognized that in this lifetime they had work of a different sort to do.

This brings us to the question you really should ask a psychic:

What sort of work am I best suited for?

In today's uncertain economy I've been getting a lot more calls about money and career issues. Astrology can be a wonderful tool for pin-pointing not just when and where you might be working next, but more specifically, what work you should be doing. When you know what you came here to do - and do it! - you not only will find your bliss, but most likely find your Soul-Mate too.

Give me a call and let's find yours!

Rosada

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Rosada, EXT 2340
CertifiedPsychics.com